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  2. Jennifer Armstrong's answer to Do empaths appear to be hated and disliked for no reason more than others? - Quora



    You may see — this is the problem that arises from creating the myth that there are “empaths”. Because apparently there are a category of people who believe that they are disliked “for no reason” and “more than others”.
    And these kind of prima donnas make it very difficult for those who are facing actual hardship and discrimination because of their identity, to get actual redress for that kind of discrimination.
    The so-called “empaths” are actually parasitical on the system of ethical evaluation — making it all about them and their extreme emotional needs not to feel in the slightest bit rejected under any circumstances. And they do not care that others have to face hatred and dislike in the realistic and concrete form of these terms. Rather, they keep placing themselves at center stage and complaining, “we are rejected for no reason”.
    Finally, this is all anybody can see — these so-called bleeding empaths.
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  4. (1) Jennifer Armstrong's answer to Can trauma cause anger issues? - Quora



    Oh yes, most certainly it can. And this phenomenon goes toward understanding a main feature of our human nature, which is that what we humans understand about moral behavior is intrinsic to a large extent, and encoded into our DNA, It is not entirely cultural and subjective.
    But then another issue arises that, for instance, those who have narcissistic personality disorder, are angry at the wrong people. Another layer of encoding has taken place, which is specific to their own hardware, and they are stuck in a permanent anger mode.
    I think that there is even a further level of complexity to this problem, which is that for the most part contemporary Western psychology has fixated on the personality disorder model, to the extent that it does not see the need to come immediately to the rescue of someone who is becoming angry because of real and ongoing infringements against their moral values. Everything is put down to “personality” and thus treated passively, as though it was completely too late to give practical support to someone who is being attacked.
    Contemporary psychology has also largely fallen into the trap of traditional values, which holds that women never really have a right to be angry at something, because anger is not seen to be part of traditional feminine nature. One is supposed to be nurturing and accepting of all things in life — never angry.
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  5. (3) Jennifer Armstrong's answer to How does Husserl’s method of phenomenology fall into solipsism? - Quora



    Arguably it falls into solipsism because the phenomenological method is not clearly grounded in anything apart from perception. But this may be the problem with philosophy in general, and why, according to some it is all just “mindless thinking and conjecture”. Kant also had exactly the same problem with his categories of reason, as Nietzsche pointed out. Those categories could be completely ungrounded in anything other than a will to believe in them — and indeed a will to invent new categories to believe in.
    The drive to find some truly absolutely solid foundation for thinking once and for all seems to beset humanity — or at least most of its best thinkers. The best bets seem to be to ground the philosophical reality in something externally recognisable, like historical events (as Hegel does), or else in something internalized but shared across a community (for example, in the experience of a shared culture, as per many of the more recent French philosophers.
    By contrast, some people want to do away with philosophy completely, as though it were just some style of speculative thought. They would rather turn to science and look to it for “objective truth”. Despite this, it is worth noting that science does not have any interest at all in pointing to that particular kind of “objective truth” that is sought (which remains quintessentially philosophical).
    This is because science does not concern itself with humanity and its needs, but rather with dry numerical and factual evidence, which still needs to be interpreted by an actual human agent. In the case where the data gleaned from an experiment is based on human reactions, the agent charged with interpretation will have no choice at all but to retain much of his own subjective lens, when doing the interpreting. So we end up back to — or close to — square one. This is because of the inevitable and automatic contamination of the evidence by the agent who interprets things outside of philosophy: he himself, not having had any formal philosophical training, is generally least aware of the conceptual and cultural baggage he or she is bringing into the fray. Such are the naive innocents with regard to the quest for knowledge.

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  6. (2) Jennifer Armstrong's answer to Can the 'Identity Politicians' be considered illiberal and authoritarian? In the sense of Chomsky, are their leaders seeking to 'manufacture consent' through forced self-censorship? - Quora





    Well, politics as such is, in fact, the business of manufacturing consent. But as Chomsky pointed out, regarding the way the media represents ideas, the smaller the news sound byte, the more one is convinced to keep things exactly as they are. By contrast, dissenting ideas do not automatically gel with our common-sense, and they therefore require more explanations and detail and justifications than we normally would require when listening to established opinion. That is why those who would like to conserve the status quo keep things short and, as it were, sweet.
    It should be noted, though, that people professing identity politics in its original form claim to be of the left. They claim to want to shut down undesirable behavior, attitudes and perhaps thoughts.

     Originally, identity politics, as thought up by Herbert Marcuse was intended as a reverse engineering of right wing politics. Those who were excluded from power in its formal manifestation were deemed to have the revolutionary potential to take on the system and destroy it from within. They could become powerful by reverse engineering the system, which is to say by embracing their identities that were considered to be negative, or violent, by those identities running the system. Or, in the case, of women, they could embrace the more cooperative, proto-socialist nature that the patriarchal system had pummeled into them, and use this to serve a revolutionary cause.

    Reverse engineering was, therefore, the method to overthrow the dominant order and to establish greater power for those identities denied power. And this was the first wave of identity politics, as exhibited and expressed by such entities as The Weathermen, who blew stuff up, including themselves in one instance, on behalf of the Third World.
    But now, and by contrast with these intended revolutionaries, we have another wave, which is using the Internet as a tool to get their views to dominate. It’s not so much a matter of reverse engineering for this crowd, but more like using the master’s tactics to put people in their place. The tone and method are extremely one-sided, not open to conversation and draconian. Perhaps in the choice of method, alone, there still remains some idea of reverse-engineering the masters’ system. The idea is to hit hard and unrelentingly until the dominant set of values crack.
    But there is also something of the old style Puritans at work here, selecting people out as “examples” of what not to do, and putting them in stocks, and pelting them with things to make them feel disgraced.
    In all, there is a distrust of dialogue. And whether this is in part justified, or not, depends on the experience of those involved in this movement. But what I have noticed myself is that they do tend to attack those whose values are more similar to theirs, rather than dissimilar. In other words, they pick on easy targets like JK Rowling (and myself), rather than on difficult targets like actual right-wingers, to make examples of. This indicates opportunism, along with perhaps the sort of psychological distress that leads to distorted perceptions.
    I believe those who embrace the contemporary identity politics of the ostensible left these days are trying to outdo those whom they perceive to have any power, by dealing with them in the same manner in which they have felt they were dealt with — that is, in an illiberal and authoritarian way. I also feel their hope is to reverse-engineer the power structures by using the methods of their enemy, in order to change the direction of the flow of power so that it is not longer the preserve of certain approved identities (white, and male).
    Despite all this, I feel that these self-styled revolutionaries are not in a position to change society, or even themselves. Their lapses are in that they are far too opportunistic, prone to attacking their own side, and do not have qualities instilled in them that would make their fight ethical, enduring or realistic. Along with this, they have embraced too much of the puritanical elements of the 19th Century to be able to be able to be really revolutionary, rather than Christian Reformist. Their characters are not truly the inverse of those who are in power. They are, instead, the mirror image.
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  7. It is correlated with paranoia, and with the American ideology of “I will not adhere!”
    Like small children, Americans respond to reverse psychology. They will do the opposite to whatever you ask them to do, and they will also believe the opposite.
    Tell a child, “Go on, I dare you —stick your hand in the fire!”
    And he will shout defiantly “I will not!”
    That is the way to handle American children.
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  8. (1) Therapists Exposed - Quora



    Because life is not a factory production strategy, where one is supposed to defend oneself against the charge of being defective and becoming an unusable tool.
    Even the concept that one can indeed “make mistakes” in life needs to come under a very thorough examination. What does it mean to “make a mistake”? If one gets hurt, does that imply that one must necessarily have “made a mistake”? —This would mean that humans are not the sort of thing that should get hurt.
    Or, if one repeats the same patterns, is that always a “mistake”? In that case are humans meant to travel through life in a linear trajectory and not do similar things?
    Or is it really that our reputation stands to suffer when we make “mistakes”, so that our brand image is diminished in the eyes of others, and they feel they cannot use as as the tools that they would otherwise be prepared to pay for?
    Also, let us unpack the second half of the sentence which places an unnecessary link between “developing insight” and “blaming others”. Would it be possible where there was a just world, whereby all that was needed to the misdeeds of others would be to “develop insight” into oneself?
    One may hope in vain for such a just world to come into existence — but in the mean time, giving that we live in an actual world where suffering and injustice take place, there is no inherent contradiction between having insight and also blaming others.
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  9. I think they have a very truncated or very limited concept of what “weakness” really is. For instance, the universal human condition of not knowing all there is to know about something could seem like a dangerous form of weakness to some people. As the old saying goes, “knowledge is power”, so therefore also a lack of knowledge could feel like a vulnerability. Feeling this way, some people try to escape the human condition — which is understandable. In fact, I think this is why some people become control freaks, presuming to know every little thing that exists inside somebody else’s soul (and getting it wrong most of the time). They can’t stand to have someone near them that might behave unpredictably. Again, this is completely understandable.
    Humans need to be able to trust in, and rely on one another, or else this paranoid feeling develops, that seeks to some alleviation by controlling others. A false knowledge system develops, whereby one presumes to know the other person’s mind, and as a back up method also tries to keep them off-balance so that they can’t do anything to harm you.
    This is all to fend off a feeling of weakness. But, as I said, it is understandable, and also often even justifiable, if one is in a social situation that is governed by the principle of market competition in most facets.
    Speaking about this from the opposite point of view now, I have had so many employers try to keep me off-balance, inventing stories of anonymous complaints, or not fielding the actual complaints (like effective managers are supposed to), but allowing me to cop the brunt of them — all to keep me off-balance. And this is because my way of thinking is not fully known to them, as I am from a foreign culture. I’m difficult to read, moreover, as I do not wear my heart on my sleeve. Consequently I am viewed as a danger by anyone feeling remotely weak or insecure.
    It seems that there are very few people who can tolerate being in the presence of another whom they cannot read like a book. This is especially the case in a rabidly market-driven society. Whereas “free competition” is supposed to make us strong and individualistic in relation to each other, the opposite is true more often than not. Not being able to rely implicitly on the good will of others, brings out weakness and paranoia in the majority of people.
    That weakness expressed in a know-it-all mentality, coupled with paranoia, is also the manifestation of narcissism. One must project oneself as a god whilst being timid and frightened within. One tries to banish the sense of weakness by manipulating and controlling others, to maintain the illusion of a godlike status — all knowing and all powerful.
    But it is nothing.
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