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    What have you grown to accept as you've gotten older?

    I’m moving away from the ideology that in the broad sense pertains to the to the optimism of the Enlightenment in Western thought. I do not think that we can, by using mental deductions and calculations, really know as much as we had thought we could about other people, or even about ourselves. We can know a great deal by using rational calculations, but in the end, actually, we cannot close the gap to know everything using this method of knowledge. There is always something lacking, something unsatisfying in the end, when it comes to closing the final gap in our knowledge so as to be sure of anything. This especially relates to how well we can understand other people, and how well they can understand us.

    My view is that the scientific method, so far as we have developed it, just simply doesn’t take us all the way we need to go in order to be certain of our knowledge. It leaves us bereft and stranded with a partial knowledge — but also with the additional temptation to make an unjustified “leap of faith” on the basis of our partial knowledge, and to declare ourselves fully knowing. After all, it is frustrating to build bridge over an ocean, traversing several kilometers and not be able to close the final half kilometer. (Many people claiming definitive scientific knowledge about “human nature” are actually bridging their limited knowledge by making an additional leap of faith.)

    So I am realizing that it is more honest, more pleasant, and indeed more humane, not to claim any definitive knowledge about anybody else. We cannot peer into their souls. We may, to some degree, peer into our own souls, but there is always that final half kilometer of unknowing, that would need to be spanned.

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  2. (2) Jennifer Armstrong's answer to What is the psychology behind victim reversal? - Quora



    To tell you the truth, psychological thinking is over-determined in Western culture nowadays. So you can ask a psychological question and get a psychological answer to it. That doesn’t mean it is how the world works.
    I think one of the big reasons for victim reversal is that people lack any sound epistemological principles — they do not know how to weigh up one situation in history and compare it to another one. This applies particularly in the political sphere, where one group will come out and say that they were victimised, and the other side will say, “but we were also victimised!” (I’m thinking of the way the slogan, Black Lives Matter, was perverted.)
    I think people are not educated from an early enough age to grasp contexts and meanings more appropriately. Part of this is that Western society focuses only on “the individual” in a way that divorces him from the environment. This leads us to mistakenly believe that we are all, at least in theory, interchangeable with each other, and that environmental influences are not at all important to understanding what is fair and just.
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  3. Jennifer Armstrong's answer to Why do some people lack a fundamental understanding of empathy? - Quora



    It’s a current buzz word, which in many people’s minds means “panacea”. The earlier sense of the term, historically, I think I can vouch for, is the idea of walking a mile in someone else’s shoes. You were not supposed to judge a person until you had actually experienced what they had experienced.
    But nowadays, people are looking for some magic — some kind of panacea — to solve the world’s problems. I think the reason has to do with specific features of Western culture. The main problem is a schism in Western thinking, starting with the Enlightenment. According to Enlightenment ideals, we are supposed to value reason over emotion, and pursue our agendas with an emotional detachment. That seemed to be liberating for a great part of history, not to be burdened by emotional sensations that made one feel guilty or responsible for others, and not to be overwhelmed by mystifying interpretations of emotional sensations.
    But now we have basically run ourselves into the ground with too much action devoid of emotional feeling. Acting in the world has become mechanical, and automatic, devoid of anything that makes us feel human. So, now we have swung to the opposite side of the pendulum, by viewing “emotion” as such as a solution to our dilemmas.
    Of course, it is not a definitive solution. So much so that the way that people are using “empathy” in the popular culture sense cannot even be defined. If I were to walk a mile in your boots, perhaps you wouldn’t even respect that, unless you were able to experience my action as a complete panacea to all of our modern troubles.
    That’s because human relationships as such have become unglued. We do not seem to have them anymore. We have mechanical relationship via a medium of “things”. So normal empathy is underwhelming, moreover it is thwarted by the impersonal nature of the system in which we live.
    We are stuck, then, without a magical, mystical solution to make us feel immediately better.
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    Why are Americans so illogical when discussing politics?

    From an outsider perspective, they are so illogical because they are not trained or educated to perceive differences in others and to respect those differences. I do not mean just in relation to their fellow Americans, but in terms of actually being able to notice that other people from around the world are actually different from them.

    It seems like a vicious circle, then — their insularity drives their high emotionality; and their high emotionality in turn feeds into very narrow, anxious and insular perspectives.

    With regard to this, what it means is “We are all Americans now!” Even I, who have never been to America, and don’t pay close attention to American politics am in some Cybernet sense “an American”.

    If I express a view online, it is likely to be taken up by an American, and I am then treated like I belong on one side or another of the American political divide. (I get to learn, indirectly, what sort of American Americans think I am. )

    But, in turn, it must be really weird having so many foreigners weighing in on the American debate — just because they are forced to do so. I’m sure it adds many confusing, and extremely illogical aspects to the already muddled American political situation, just because we, who are in another country, are speaking about totally different things and totally different experiences than the Americans are speaking about in their county.

    It must make things seem insane, indeed!

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  5. Jennifer Armstrong's answer to Do you agree: People are ultimately divided more by class than by nationality? - Quora



    Maybe they are divided by their perception of class. But to me, I think a lot of what goes on in people’s minds is very much mistaken.
    For instance, many people embrace the idea that the sort of politics I hold is important. It really isn’t. Even if I were to be one hundred percent wrong on all points of politics, I do not rule the world, and I cannot change anybody’s life. In other words, I am not powerful. I do not own any wealth to speak of (I live below the poverty line). I do not have any instrument or control over any apparatus of power. I am not well-known even, so I do not have even that weak sort of influential power.
    Consequently, I am not of a superior “class”. If people still think I am, and deem it worthy of their time to chastise me for my supposed beliefs, then they reveal the extent to which they do not understand anything about real power dynamics or how these actually work.
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  6. Jennifer Armstrong's answer to Do you agree: People are ultimately divided more by class than by nationality? - Quora



    Maybe they are divided by their perception of class. But to me, I think a lot of what goes on in people’s minds is very much mistaken.
    For instance, many people embrace the idea that the sort of politics I hold is important. It really isn’t. Even if I were to be one hundred percent wrong on all points of politics, I do not rule the world, and I cannot change anybody’s life. In other words, I am not powerful. I do not own any wealth to speak of (I live below the poverty line). I do not have any instrument or control over any apparatus of power. I am not well-known even, so I do not have even that weak sort of influential power.
    Consequently, I am not of a superior “class”. If people still think I am, and deem it worthy of their time to chastise me for my supposed beliefs, then they reveal the extent to which they do not understand anything about real power dynamics or how these actually work.
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  7. (1) Jennifer Armstrong's answer to If Voltaire is right about his axiom, “those who rule, are those you cannot criticize” then is America destined to become like Nazi Germany? - Quora



    Despite the fact that this quote is attributed to a white supremacist, I think it makes sound psychological sense and thus is not inherently racist, but neutral.
    For example, I can notice, having been brought up in Africa, that it was very dangerous to criticize the regimes of power. You might have felt you could do so freely, especially if you were not that bright, but you would have ended up in the slammer or being charged with sedition — or worse, being beaten up overnight and left for dead. This actually happened in the case of both the white regime and the black regime that followed it.
    Talking about things on another level, I have noticed that if the word, “patriarchy” appears in any online writing, the post is heavily downvoted, and consequently collapsed or in other ways marginalized or removed from public viewing. That will be the case with this post I am making now, as well. If you want to know who rules over you, you can realize who has the strength of power by analyzing who you cannot criticize.
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  8. Jennifer Armstrong - Quora





    We have to be very careful when we try to align emotional states with moral attitudes or values. I think it is very tempting to imagine that the world naturally functions on the basis of structuring us to have a proper alignment with it. Those who are mis-aligned would produce emotional signs and reactions as flares emanating from them, indicating non-compatibility with the structure of reality itself. But this is mostly mystical thinking.
    I recognize that there may be some low grade practical thinking regarding this matter of compatability — those who go against the grain of their societies are rarely happy. Along with this, human societies are generally developed to facilitate moderate benefits for the majority of their adherents, so if one is angry all the time, there may be some possibility that one is incapable of reaping these conventional and moderate benefits for oneself. Perhaps the reason is that one is morally deficient?
    But that is at the level of the generality and the rule. What happens at the level of individual lives does not fit the general principles and the rule that can be ascertained by statistically analysing the majority. Individuals and their experienced are more like quantum mechanics. Things happen to individuals that make us angry and irritable. Sometimes we are morally outraged at what happens to us on an individual level. We might even be hyper-moral in our outrage. It all depends.
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  9. (1) Jennifer Armstrong's answer to How would you attempt to express emotions and reflect upon personal values in relation to the Americans in the Raw and how did or did not change or add to your perspective? - Quora



    Well, very broadly, Americans think, speak and relate in a different register, which is way more emotional than mine is. Believe it or not, this actually has the effect of changing the meaning of words and almost making them the opposite to what is spoken.

    The way it tends to work out is this: Americans, due to not understanding the ironic and stoical humor that infests my words, view me as not really saying anything much, whilst being cagey and defensive about my real views. They also view an intellectual approach to life as inauthentic.

    What they do not see is that I am really being very direct with them, and quite often employing quite barbed comments, to pull them up on something that I think is wrongheaded or clumsily spoken. I’m not hiding my views at all. I am relating them.

    To be fair to Americans, I think they do pick this up on some level, but it only makes them madder. And perhaps I also understand them deeply, too, since I am aware that they require some peculiar things that I am not willing to put up with — for instance that women should relate to the world in a very emotional register, or not relate to it at all. To be considered convincing and authentic, women have to come across as quite emotional (not necessarily with outbursts, but more in terms of a narrow and introverted sentimentality).

    Oh well.

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